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ome people hold a pessimistic outlook on life. In spite of all their conscious efforts or will power, they can never amount to something whatsoever as a consequence of their lacking in aptitudes. Thus, they conceive themselves to be born to lose.
However, they're far from justified in building up such a negative individual ego ideal. The real trouble resulting in their defects is relevant with an inadequate self-image, which is, so to speak, a blueprint of themselves. That's to say, the self-conception is a premise upon which their personality, behavior and circumstances are constructed. When they encounter adversity that appear to bear it out, the self-definition is enhanced, thus setting up a vicious circle. Consequently, they identify with their failures. Owing to this seemingly objective evidence, it seldom occurs to them that their problem lies in their self-evaluation. As long as their internal self-image remains untouched, attempts on character defect will never do.
Hopefully, it has been satisfactorily theorized that everybody is equipped with the capacity to succeed in his own right and it's never too late to strive for success. Here come 3 requirements that facilitate the transition from a loser to a winner. First and foremost, they should be prevailed upon to rebuild their self-definition and thereby live a new life. Numerous experiments have verified that once the concept of self which serves as the keystone is reclaimed, other related aspects are accomplished accordingly and without strain. Furthermore, success belongs to the preserving, as the saying goes. Only if they persist in their efforts rather than rely on their talents, they're bound to get somewhere. Finally, instead of getting caught in the depression when confronted with failures, they ought to make the most of their time. Seize time and success will eventually come their way.
In summary, on the road to success, people need to be critical about the validity of self-images, react to the challenge of life with perseverance, make full use of their valuable time to go after their ambitions. After all, it's never too late to struggle for success!！
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发表于 2022-12-2 11:29
